Sensual Massage Therapy FAQ
I'd like to book in but I've never had sensual massage and I'm a bit nervous?
This is quite understandable especially if it is something completely new to you. I would suggest that you bring a partner or friend with you who could either sit in the massage room with you or sit in my lounge watching TV.
You are always welcome to contact me here or on Messenger, WhatsApp or text to arrange a chat with me and we can go from there, and at this point we can discuss the type of massage you would like with any boundaries that you have.
Remember that you have the option of clothed sensual massage too.
What if I get aroused and make a noise?
Well, that has to be expected and is a sign that you are clearly enjoying the massage. It is a perfectly normal and healthy reaction to a good sensual massage.
Can I talk to you? Can I touch you?
Yes of course you can talk to me while I am giving massage especially if you find a chat relaxing. I don't mind being touched either; again it is a perfectly normal and healthy reaction to the arousing nature of sensual massage.
Would you undress me for the massage? Are you undressed?
What I would normally do is to leave the room while you undress and you would then call me back into the room, but I can undress you if you wish and position you on the table for the massage.
I remain clothed normally as a therapist.
Can I have a shower before we start?
Yes, I have full shower facilities and you are welcome to shower before and after the massage.
What can I expect during the massage?
I start with you lying face down on the table; I apply Jojoba oil to your back and then massage with Swedish and deep tissue movements using finger, hand and forearms. This loosens your muscles and make them more supple to the touch while easing you into the massage so that you become more relaxed. I then move from your lower back to your glutes and massage the area which will help give improved movement and suppleness to your whole lower back.
I move to your legs, apply oil and massage your feet, calves, hamstrings and inner thighs. Subsequent thigh strokes lead into a more sensual oil massage of your intimate/private area. At this point climax begins to occur and multiple climaxes are possible for women who have found climax difficult in the past.
We take a break from the sensual elements and I turn you face up and massage your shoulders, arms and hands. I massage and knead your breast tissue and move to your tummy. Further massage follows to your lower abdomen and intimate area where climax again begins to occur, often multiple in women. The massage ends with massage to the thighs, lower legs and feet.
How many climaxes can I expect?
While it is best to measure your enjoyment of the massage in terms of relaxation and possibly feelings of empowerment, this is a common question and deserves to be answered fully. It really depends on how relaxed you feel and how comfortable you are with your chosen masseur.
That said, I feel from experience that female clients who can relax and climax readily should expect in the order of 4 to 6 climaxes in 60 to 90 minutes, and those who have difficulty with climax should still expect 1 to 2 climaxes.
I would advise that clients focus on relaxation and prioritize this over climax to get the most from the massage.
Do you use toys for the sensual elements of the massage? Can I bring my own with me?
I normally use hand and finger movements for the sensual elements, together with a Doxy electric wand vibrator which is in fact a body massager but is an extremely powerful (more powerful than the Hitachi Magic Wand) vibrator.
When used in conjunction with hand and finger movements, it can lead to an extremely powerful climax which leaves some clients shattered both physically and emotionally and they need water and a shower to compose themselves afterwards.
You are welcome to bring your own toys and tell me when and how you would like them to feature in the massage.
What if I want something which is not normally part of your massage?
Just tell me what you would like and we can incorporate it into the treatment. I'm very broad minded and not judgmental in any way.
What if I don't like what you are doing or I want a break?
Just tell me immediately if you feel uncomfortable and I will adapt the massage to your liking. It is unlikely that this would happen as we would have discussed your boundaries prior to starting.
If you do feel uncomfortable, or wish to take a break, just let me know and we can take a break and I will give you some water or tea. At some point you will need a bathroom break anyway.